Lydia Davis writes in straightforward, elegant sentences about people whose thoughts are not straightforward at all. With gentle yet penetrating insight, she illuminates characters who are worried, puzzled about how to live their lives, not sure what to believe. They are drawn in by false notions, imagine nonexistent dangers, read philosophy but fail to understand it. The combination of their imperfect thinking and Davis’s flawless prose is touching; it can also be extremely funny.

Most of the stories in “Bezoek aan haar man” are very short: a few pages long, or a paragraph, or one sentence. Although they seldom have an actual plot, they are often concerned with stories and storytelling: she is interested in the effect that narratives have on people’s lives.

In “The Professor,” a woman who teaches English sees a romantic movie and starts wishing she could marry a cowboy. “I was tired of thinking, which was what I did most in those days. […] I might feel something, but I would think about what I was feeling at the same time. […] I imagined that maybe a cowboy would help me stop thinking so much.” She daydreams about running a motel in the desert and falling in love with the cowboy when he comes to stay. “I had that strange confidence, born of watching a good movie, that I could be something different from what I was, and I started listening to country-western music on the car radio, though I knew it wasn’t written for me.”

In “The Bone” a woman describes an incident that happened years before: she served her husband fish for dinner and a bone got caught in his throat. He and she went together to the hospital, where a doctor took it out. Later they divorced. On the rare occasions when they see each other, they still bring up the night of the fishbone. The story itself has become stuck in their throats, a small, tickly scrap of a marriage long ago consumed.

Lydia Davis’s own first husband was Paul Auster, a fact that stimulates curiosity. They were together for 13 years, collaborated on French translations, and have a son. Was he the model for the man with the fishbone? Or for the man in the title story, who meets his wife to discuss their divorce? Like Auster, Davis is a minimalist with a distinctive style. But where Auster is mysterious and abstract, Davis often looks for meaning in domestic detail: sounds from outside an apartment window, the furniture in a room. As a result, her stories are calm even when the people in them are desperate.

In “What Was Interesting,” a writer is trying to describe a moment in which her boyfriend was rude to her. Although she is furious, she can’t seem to make the event sound important, and she wonders why. The result is both an account of deep emotional pain and a subtle inquiry into how love stories create their effect. Likewise, “French Lesson I: Le Meurtre” examines the building blocks of stories. Here, Davis takes words from an elementary French lesson—le poulet, le fermier, la femme—and uses them to construct a mysterious crime thriller.

It took a while for Davis’s star to rise. She is the author of one novel, “The End of the Story” (1995), and the winner of various lesser-known literary prizes, but it has only been in the past ten years, and especially after her “Collected Stories” were published in 2009, that she won widespread critical recognition. (“Bezoek aan haar man,” her first Dutch publication, contains the first half of that collection, in an excellent translation by Peter Bergsma.) She has also translated some 30 books from French to English, including Sartre and Simenon (together with Auster), and more recently Proust and “Madame Bovary.”

Although she’s an experimental writer, she’s not an intimidating one; her brief observations are both intellectual and gently self-mocking. It’s easy to recognize oneself in a story like “A Few Things Wrong with Me,” in which a man calls a woman to end their relationship. When she asks him why, he tells her that there are things about her that bothered him from the beginning. Inevitably, she can’t stop wondering what they are, “a useless question, really, since I’m not the one who can answer it and anyone else who tries will come up with a different answer, though of course all the answers together may add up to the right one, if there is such a thing as a right answer to a question like that.” Seeing that the human condition is absurd, she can only conclude that thinking—and writing—are symptoms, or possibly even causes of the disease.

In “Foucault and Pencil” the narrator describes a failed attempt to read the abstruse philosopher Michel Foucault in French. “Short sentences easier to understand than long ones. Certain long ones understandable part by part, but so long, forgot beginning before reaching end.” It’s comforting to know that one is not the only reader daunted by difficult writing—but Davis is also showing off her own clear thinking. In some ways her stories insist that life can’t be understood, and yet her own power of insight offers hope that it can.

Besides, the idea that uncomfortable experiences—the moments when we realize we are not equal to the demands of life—can also be literature is an encouraging one. In another story, under the heading “I have learned what art really is,” she writes, “Art is not in some far-off place.” Literature is here, in the scraps and bones of life—and in the telling.

Trouw, May 21, 2011. Lydia Davis, Bezoek aan haar man (Amsterdam: Atlas, 2011), Collected Stories (New York: FSG, 2009).

D.H. Lawrence is famous, among other things, for introducing sex to the modern British novel. Even in the unexpurgated edition of “Women in Love” (now in a fine new Dutch translation by Barbara de Lange), the sex scenes are veiled rather than explicit. But by using code words like “desire” and “fulfillment,” and with pace and intensity, he still achieved a remarkable power for 1920. Here two lovers, Ursula Brangwen and the attractive, free-thinking Rupert Birkin, are making love on a blanket in the woods, in the dark:

They threw off their clothes, and he gathered her to him, and found her, found the pure lambent reality of her forever invisible flesh (…) the body of mysterious night upon the body of mysterious night (…). She had her desire of him, she touched, she received the maximum of unspeakable communication in touch, dark, subtle, positively silent, a magnificent gift and give again, a perfect acceptance and yielding, a mystery (…)

The sex is particularly intense because the two have just had a huge fight, confessed their love for each other, and finally given in to their overpowering passion. It is particularly scandalous because they are not married.

“Women in Love” is not just sexy for the sake of being sexy, though: Lawrence was making a point. The novel is his modernist manifesto, his announcement that it was time to speak openly about relationships between men and women. The novel’s four young protagonists, Ursula, Birkin, Ursula’s sister Gudrun, and her lover Gerald Crich, are determined to do nothing less than redefine the institution of marriage. They have seen their parents suffer in unhappy unions. They want a physical and emotional connection with another person in which they can be equal, independent, self-aware, and free.

In the absence of God, they talk constantly about the purpose of life. Gerald, the owner of a coal mine, believes in industriousness: “Only work, the business of production, held men together.” Birkin’s former lover, the imperious aristocrat Hermione Roddice, places her trust in will-power: “The will can cure anything, and put anything right.” Gudrun, an artist, longs for an intellectual companion who will understand her talent. Birkin and Ursula look to love—including physical love—as the source of life’s meaning.

Meanwhile the two men, Gerald and Birkin, struggle with their attraction to each other—literally, in a famous scene in which they wrestle naked, then collapse into each other’s arms. The novel ends on Ursula telling Birkin he can’t love both men and women: “It’s wrong, impossible.” Birkin answers, “I don’t believe that.”

To Lawrence’s generation, just emerging from the Victorian era, the need to be open about sex was great. Especially in the years just after the terrible mechanized killings of World War I, to show tenderness and feel physical intimacy, to get close to bodies and the natural world, seemed an act of hope. They also found sex frightening. Lawrence portrays his most openly sexual characters, a group of Soho artists, as “vapid,” “profane,” and possessing “an unfathomable hell of knowledge.” He compares sexual freedom to sledding down a steep hillside: exhilarating and out of control.

But in declaring that unmarried intercourse did not necessarily lead to hellfire and damnation, Lawrence began the conversation that still consumes Westerners today: the endless talk about the place of the erotic in individual lives.

In the process, he defined how we write about it. In ”Women in Love,” and a few years later in “Lady Chatterley’s Lover”—which for the first time described sex explicitly, using ordinary words like “arse” and going into the mechanics of a woman’s orgasm—he more or less invented the sex scene in modern literature.

 

Now that the popular debate is dominated by the question of whether we talk too much about sex, it’s hard to remember how it was when people talked too little. Lawrence was born in 1885 in England, a place and time characterized by a spectacular amount of sexual repression among people of every social class. As an adult he knew lesbians and gay men; open marriages were not uncommon in his bohemian circle; his German wife Frieda introduced him to the notion of free love. (She had previously had an affair with Otto Gross, the renegade psychoanalyst who preached sex as a cure for psychic ills.) Effective treatment for syphilis was opening up Jazz Age attitudes toward sex. But divorce was still a scandal, contraception hard to come by, information about sex a well-kept secret.

The modernists were discovering what my generation learned about as teenagers: the exhilarating power of talking openly, even laughing about the body. One day when Lawrence’s contemporary Virginia Woolf was in her drawing room with her sister Vanessa, their gay friend Lytton Strachey came in, pointed at a stain on Vanessa’s dress, and asked, “Semen?” The two women burst into giggles. Woolf recalled, “With that one word all barriers of reticence and reserve went down. A flood of the sacred fluid seemed to overwhelm us. Sex permeated our conversation.”

But actually having sex seemed, for many people, beyond reach. Until he met Frieda at 26, Lawrence had had no more than a few fumbling encounters and had suffered enormously from this long sexual drought. That he was bisexual, and also repressing desires for men, didn’t help. Looking back he commented, “One is swindled out of one’s proper sex life, a great deal. But it is nobody’s individual fault: fault of the age (…)”

His greatest statement about the power of sexual openness to restore a broken society is “Lady Chatterley’s Lover.” Published in 1928, two years before his death, this novel of a love between a rich, lonely wife and her husband’s earthy, sensual gamekeeper was banned in Britain for over 30 years. The overturning of the ban in 1960 was a starting point for the sexual revolution. From the Chatterley trial it was just a dozen years to legal abortion in the UK, the gay rights movement, Page Three girls, “Turks fruit,” “Ik, Jan Cremer,” and Erica Jong’s zipless fuck.

Over 80 years after Lawrence’s death, and 50 years after the famous trial, we Westerners are still struggling to cope in our personal lives with the sexual openness Lawrence proposed. From sex advice columns, singles nights, and Amsterdam’s gay Canal Parade to divorce mediation and child custody laws, new institutions, etiquette, and entire commercial industries have grown up to help people not only reify and enjoy our new freedoms but deal with the consequences.

In recent novels such as Jonathan Franzen’s “Freedom” and Martin Amis’s “The Pregnant Widow,” rather than fighting against repression, the characters are disappointed or humiliated by their sexual liberty. Now that Lawrence’s exhilarating promise has become our banal reality, has talking about sex, in literature at any rate, lost its sexiness?

 

This was a recent complaint from Elsbeth Etty, who wondered in NRC Handelsblad whether sex in literature was a dying art. The thrilling, forbidden encounters in Lawrence, “Lolita,” the 1960s novels of Roth and Updike, she wrote, have all but disappeared from English and Dutch literature. In Britain, the awarding of the Bad Sex prize provokes an annual discussion of whether writers are taking fewer risks in describing sex. Responding to that debate, Etty commented that British and Dutch writers may have become “afraid to enact their sexual fantasies or frustrations on paper, as if—as was commonly believed in the 1950s—the overthrow of sexual taboos would undermine the family, society, and ultimately the individual.”

It does, of course: sexual freedom undermines like crazy. That’s no strange fantasy of a repressed mind. Lawrence knew perfectly well that in writing about sex before marriage he was bringing down a whole house of cards: marriage as an economic institution, the rights of husbands and fathers, even class hierarchies. In “Lady Chatterley’s Lover,” Lawrence, the son of a coal miner, shocked readers not only by letting his characters make love, but by letting them make love across class lines. At the trial the prosecutor asked the jury, “Is it a book that you would (…) wish your wife or your servants to read?” He became a laughingstock: in 1960, it was too late.

Etty’s question is where this leaves literature. “Exciting literary sex,” she writes, “has always been about breaking taboos.” Now that almost everything is sayable, and most of it has been said somewhere, can desire still get our attention?

Yet with the house of cards already scattered around our feet, the idea that good literary sex must still be forbidden sex strikes me as superficial. Sex in fiction can be good for any number of reasons, the least imaginative of which, at this point in history, is that it’s not allowed.

Lawrence, for instance, is not only good because he’s scandalous. As impossible as he can be in some ways—judgmental, misanthropic, terrified of women—he’s a writer of enormous sensitivity. In his sex scenes, he’s all about the rhythm: he’s trying to make the words sound the way sex feels. Here’s a more explicit passage, from “Lady Chatterley’s Lover”:

All his blood-vessels seemed to scald with intense yet tender desire, for her, for her softness, for the penetrating beauty of her in his arms, passing into his blood. (…) Softly he stroked the silky slope of her loins, down, down between her soft warm buttocks, coming nearer and nearer to the very quick of her. And she felt him like a flame of desire, yet tender, and she felt herself melting in the flame.

Not only is he getting into the groove, so to speak, he’s making subtle shifts of perspective. He first describes what the man feels under his hand: the silkiness of the woman’s bare skin, the warmth. Then as he approaches that “quick,” he takes us out of his head and into hers, feeling the hand get closer. And who’s penetrating whom? Lawrence’s subtle alternation of perspective is seductive. Decreasing the distance between the reader and the characters, it emphasizes how dependent one’s pleasure is on the pleasure of another.

The other reason Lawrence’s sex scenes knock your socks off is that the emotional stakes are so high. In “Lady Chatterley,” Constance Chatterley’s desire for a child, her frustration with her paralyzed husband, her determination to preserve her independence, along with Mellors’s anger at class distinctions and fear of women, both lovers’ sensuality and unbearable loneliness—it’s the explosive feelings they bring with them that make the sex what it is. At one point Mellors tells Connie that she doesn’t have to love him to make love to him, but he won’t go in for “cold-hearted fucking.”

Now that sex has become a more ordinary part of life, it may seem that there could never again be as much at stake. And indeed, a fair amount of fictional intercourse is entered into in cold blood. But sex in fiction can carry as much emotional power as any other dramatic scene. It doesn’t have to be love or excitement. It can, as in a sexy scene in Jonathan Lethem’s recent Chronic City, be the regret and injured pride a man feels as he makes love to his girlfriend for the last time.

Martin Amis, when asked about the demise of sex in literature, told the Guardian, “With that tonnage of emotion on [sex], if there is going to be one thing you can’t write about then that would be it.” He’s not saying that writers don’t dare. He means that a good sex scene demands the utmost of their creative talent. A writer may be describing the most casual encounter or the three-thousandth time the characters have made love. The power lies in how much the writer can make it matter to the people involved.

 

In the aftermath of the sexual revolution, it’s hard to get away from the idea that all sex is good sex, and that more sex is better sex—that quantity, along with newness and variety, is enough to yield pleasure, in real life or on the page. But sex isn’t part of some capitalist program of unlimited expansion. It doesn’t get better if there’s more of it, or if it’s harder to get. The fundamental goal of the sexual revolution was, is, should be an egalitarian acceptance of all pleasures—including monogamy and the missionary position. Breaking taboos and setting boundaries are both merely means to the difficult end of understanding one’s own desires.

What makes the young people in Lawrence’s fiction so recognizable still, 90 years later, is that they are struggling to know what they want, to know themselves well enough to choose. Even now, the people to whom sex matters most, who—confused, frightened, tender, horny—have assumed the pleasurable, painful responsibility of discovering the nature and limits of their own sexuality, are the young. In a way, everyone who comes of age has to go through his or her own sexual revolution.

Lawrence paved the way for the great sexual discoveries of the sixties and seventies in literature, with Updike and Roth as the Beatles and the Stones of literary self-exposure. But I suspect that the great era of sex in literature belongs more to the readers than the writers. The best eroticism in fiction is what you discover at a tender age and use to shape your own desires. It doesn’t matter when it was written. Good sex in literature is what you find when it matters most.

Trouw, February 26, 2011. D.H. Lawrence, Women in Love (1920); Verliefde vrouwen, in a new Dutch translation by Barbara de Lange (Amsterdam: Athenaeum, 2011). The discussion of Lawrence’s life draws on Brenda Maddox, The Married Man: A Life of D.H. Lawrence (1994).

In her nine novels, the American writer Lionel Shriver has never been afraid to show her characters’ dark side. Grimly, and sometimes comically, she explores marriage and family life as sources of powerful, unsettling emotion. In 2005, she won the Orange Prize for “We Need to Talk About Kevin,” told from the point of view of the parent of a teenage school killer. In flashbacks, she shows us a tyrannical son and a mother who never loved him, leaving unresolved the question of which of the two is the monster.

Shriver’s maternal horror story touched a nerve and went on to sell about a million copies worldwide. In her next book she retreated from dark subjects: “The Post-Birthday World” was a romance, though a calculating one, about a woman choosing between a reliable and an attractive man.

In her new book, Shriver again takes the lid off domestic life, writing about the family, not with the delicate eye for marital discontent of a Rachel Cusk, but with the satirical flair of a Martin Amis. “So Much for That” is the story of Shepherd Knacker, a man in his late forties who has spent his life saving money. What he wants to buy with it, he says, is himself: he wants to relocate to a tropical paradise where he can live on almost nothing. He calls this plan the Afterlife—which is ironic, because just when he finally buys tickets for himself and his family to an island off the coast of Tanzania, his wife Glynis comes home and tells him she has cancer.

Glynis, an artist, is insured through Shep’s work—and in America’s market economy, Shep’s employer can choose to give him only partial coverage. Her illness is about to wipe out his life savings, and along with them his dream of the Afterlife.

This is the start of a wickedly brilliant book, especially in how it talks about money. We don’t like to think of the family as being part of the economic system, or of family ties as more financial than emotional. Barbara Ehrenreich once called the household the last socialist institution, because it’s the one place where people are still willing to share their toaster and their refrigerator. We like to see money as an instrument, not the essence of ourselves.

But Shriver shows us how monetary exchange can make its way into even the most intimate situations. Every person in this novel has a cash value, from a call girl to a woman dying of cancer. And everyone is defined by their relationship to money. Are they givers of money or takers of it? Do they feel more secure when they’re paying or when they’re being paid for?

If even life and death have become fiscal transactions, maybe it’s no surprise that American rebellion focuses on taxes. Shep’s best friend, Jackson, adds political commentary with his cranky assaults on various aspects of the System, claiming that the world is divided into “Patsies and Parasites, Saps and Spongers, Mugs and Moochers.” Then there’s Shep’s whiny sister, a critically successful but chronically broke documentary filmmaker who is “starting to look less like a gifted woman sacrificing for her work, and more like a failure.” (The character, Shriver says, is based on herself before she achieved commercial success.)

The book never quite becomes sentimental, partly because the characters are all so stubbornly opinionated. Glynis refuses to become less difficult as she suffers. When her sister remarks cautiously that illness doesn’t always bring out the best in people, she replies, “But maybe the best in me, for me, isn’t the best in me for you. Maybe the best in me, for me, is that I’m spiteful and vindictive and wish deadly diseases on everyone.”

During a reading in Amsterdam, Shriver said that she began the book after one of her best friends died of cancer. The treatment cost $2 million and extended her friend’s life perhaps three months. (The courageous and optimistic “battle against cancer” is another American commonplace that Shriver tears to shreds.) Then she read in the paper that the most common cause of personal bankruptcy in the US was not the mortgage crisis, but hospital bills.

By the end, Shriver afflicts her characters with not one but three different deadly diseases, plus personal bankruptcy and a penis enlargement operation gone wrong. Meanwhile, the book that begins as a critique of American health care has become something much more. Ultimately, it’s a moving exploration of big themes, from the eternal—death and taxes—to the existential: the purpose of work; the bonds of families; the power of married love, the way we cope, or fail to cope, with death. Shriver doesn’t like to say what you expect. Instead, her powerful intellect and her sensitivity show on every page, from the ominous start to the surprisingly redemptive ending.

Moral discomfort
Minister’s daughter Lionel Shriver (North Carolina, USA, 1957) has been described as “ferociously intelligent, uncompromising, independent, contrary, passionate, and scorchingly funny.” Born Margaret Ann, she felt “alienated” from her name and switched to Lionel at 15. Her novels deal with politics, morality, and the problem of taking the clean knife of ethics to the soup of everyday life. “I like to craft characters who are hard to love,” she says. “I use my characters to examine aspects of myself of which I’m suspicious, or with which I’m not terribly comfortable.” Thus she wrote her best-known book, “We Need to Talk About Kevin,” when she herself was wondering if she should try to have a child: what if she had one she didn’t like? Though her books are often set in America, Shriver spent 12 years reporting from Belfast and now lives with her husband in London.

Trouw, December 18, 2010. So Much for That by Lionel Shriver (New York: HarperCollins, 2010).

Alice Neel (1900–1984) was the most independent-minded painter in New York, “a grande, if often rude, dame” who turned her back on the art world to plant her flag in the neglected genre of portraiture. By the time her career took off in the 1960s, this ultimate bohemian had worked for the WPA, lived on welfare, had many lovers and four children—one died, one was confiscated by her in-laws—and never ceased painting with uncanny psychological insight. Her wordy, misspelling-ridden bio needed a much better edit than it got. Still, Neel’s fascinatingly contradictory, gloriously stubborn character shines through.

From The Village Voice, “The Best Books of 2010.”

Has the sexual revolution, on balance, been a good thing? Rather than freeing us, sexual liberation seems to have subjected our sex lives to the laws of the consumer economy: unequally distributed resources, cycles of feast and famine, competitiveness, acquisitiveness (are other people getting more?). Is sex on the free market really what we wanted? Who’s getting rich under this system, and who’s becoming poor?

Keith, for one, the main character in Martin Amis’s clever, satirical, only partly successful new novel, “The Pregnant Widow.” Keith was born in the same year as Amis, 1949, and resembles him in other ways, too, such as his sensitivity about his height. (Like Amis he occupies “that much-disputed territory between five-foot-six and five-foot-seven”). This leads us to believe that all the power of Amis’s surely considerable experience with sex is going into this tale. He must know what he’s saying when he tells us, on page one, that Keith, a foot soldier in the sexual revolution, is about to become a casualty, that he will suffer a pleasurable “trauma” that will “ruin him for twenty-five years.”

It’s the summer of 1970. Keith is twenty years old and sleeping with a fellow student, Lily, whom he thinks he loves. At Lily’s invitation, he has come to Italy, that place of literary sexual awakening, to spend the summer at a castle belonging to the mother of her best friend. Keith, of course, promptly falls in love, or at any rate lust, with the tall, topless-sunbathing best friend, whose name is Scheherazade.

Scheherazade has fabulous breasts, which Keith goes on about at some length. In fact, all Amis’s characters talk a lot about bodies. The assembled group includes a worldly-wise homosexual, a woman with a rich boyfriend and a large backside named Gloria Beautyman, a four-foot-ten-inch lothario, an orphaned, pregnant 12-year-old, and Rita, a redhead whose sexual aggressiveness is the stuff of legend. They all comment on each other’s physical attributes and what’s attractive to whom. Even when he’s reading Jane Austen, Keith finds remarks about bodies. The heroine of “Northanger Abbey” “has big tits. Austen more or less tells you that,” Keith explains to Lily. “When Catherine’s growing up she gets plumper and her figure gains consequence. Consequence—that’s code for big tits.”

Keith is studying English, so in between all this talk about bodies, he’s also reading his way through the English literary canon. He concludes that, from Richardson to the Brontës to Thomas Hardy, the plot always turns on forbidden love and the chastity of women. “It sometimes seemed to Keith that the English novel, at least in its first two or three centuries, asked only one question. Will she fall?…What’ll they write about, he wondered, when all women fall? Well, there’ll be new ways of falling…”

So along with his sharp wit and brilliant social satire, Amis is armed with an entire history of English hormones. And then…nothing happens. For 300 pages, Keith sleeps with Lily and lusts after Scheherazade, and never in all that time does Amis manage to give this theoretically sexy situation an erotic charge.

Nor does he persuade us to care about Keith’s soul. We’re told that Keith is a romantic who is shocked by the new freedom, or at least startled: “Where were the hinderers, the wet blankets,…where was the police?” But in fact, the few shreds of decency Keith has, he seems happy enough to discard. To be honest, Keith is the kind of guy who, if he met me at a party, would blow me off faster than you can say five-foot-eleven. Why should I give him 470 pages’ worth of my sympathy?

Amis seems to be trying to say something serious, rather than just do his usual trick of scoring one-liners at his characters’ expense. We hear a lot of stories about sex occurring elsewhere, and conclusions about society’s future are drawn. “It was already obvious that every hard and demanding adaptation would be falling to the girls,” Keith thinks. “The boys could just go on being boys. It was the girls who had to choose.”

And Lily remarks thoughtfully, about a girl named Pansy who went to bed with Keith because she thought she should, “People doing it when it’s not in their nature. When they don’t want to. It’s worse, isn’t it, than people not doing it when they do.”

But “The Pregnant Widow” only really gets interesting in the last 70 pages, after Keith returns to London. Over the next twenty years, he struggles to reconcile his new-found sexual cool with the realities of love, desire, and marriage—a problem that’s infinitely more interesting than the tale of his Italian summer. There’s also a subplot about his sister Violet, a self-destructive alcoholic addicted to sex with strangers. This is another point where the novel draws from life: Violet is based closely on Amis’s younger sister Sally, who died in 2000 at the age of 46.

In some ways I suspect that Violet is the real story, and that the proper theme of “The Pregnant Widow” is not the sexual revolution at all. The novel fails because Amis himself is still too aloof, too addicted to his generation’s hard-hearted stance, to write about all the non-profit-motive factors that persist in interfering with our liberalized sexual economy—factors like families, marriage, little sisters, and love.

Trouw, September 25, 2010. Martin Amis, The Pregnant Widow (London: Jonathan Cape, 2010).

A long-legged, looming metal spider, nine meters tall, bears, in its belly, a sinister clutch of eggs. In different versions, it frightens museum-goers in Bilbao, St. Petersburg, and, as of this week, The Hague. It looks more like a prop from a horror movie than a work of art. Yet the artist Louise Bourgeois liked to claim that her best-known work was inspired by her mother, a craftswoman who restored antique tapestries. “I come from a family of repairers,” she said. “The spider is a repairer.” The sculpture’s title is Maman.

Bourgeois, who died last May at age 98, was almost as famous for what she said about her art as for the work itself. Her brilliant, abstract sculptures—some of Bourgeois couplewhich will be on view in the Gemeentemuseum in “Double Sexus,” a formally and psychologically rich dual exposition with the German artist Hans Bellmer—were often accompanied by deeply personal remarks about her life. It wasn’t just a giant spider, in other words, but an autobiographical statement. Her work was about her body, she said, or her fears, or her difficult relationship with her father.

She was small, and (since her career didn’t really take off until she was 70) very old, and liked to startle people with her work. One way to do this was to draw on her deepest fantasies; and if in doing so she broke another taboo, the one against saying too much about yourself, so much the better. Asked about her lurid installation The Destruction of the Father (1974) a red-lit, womblike cave in which lumps of latex and plaster seem to gather around a table, she replied that it was a cannibalistic fantasy. “At the dinner table my father would go on and on, showing off, aggrandizing himself. And the more he showed off, the smaller we felt. Suddenly, there was a terrific tension, and we grabbed him…and pulled him onto the table and pulled his legs and arms apart—dismembered him, right? And…we ate him up.”

Confessional art, like memoir in literature, is a form we’re still not quite sure about. It’s certainly enjoyable. It can make an artist beloved: Bourgeois’ frankness, humor, and forgivingness in exploring identity and bodies helped her become not only one of the most admired but the most lovable of contemporary artists. (If her work were reproducible in two dimensions, she would be keeping Frida Kahlo company on fridge magnets everywhere.) But it can also be shallow, with sensation taking the place of real insight.

Bourgeois was an artist of great technical skill and formal power. She was no Tracey Emin, exhibiting her unmade bed and dirty knickers in a gallery (although she helped make Emin’s work possible). Still, there were critics who distrusted her autobiographical statements and came to distrust the work itself, asserting that Bourgeois’ admirers were responding more to her biography than to any “intrinsic aesthetic quality of emotional truth [her work] may have had.”

The first ingredient autobiographical work requires is a good story, and that Bourgeois certainly had. She was born in 1911 on the Boulevard Saint Germain in Paris, next door to Café de Flore, and named after her father, Louis. Her parents had a gallery that dealt in antique tapestries: her father traveled the country, buying up hangings from decaying chateaux, while her mother supervised the restoration work. When Louise was a baby the family moved to a large house in the suburbs, with the workshop on the ground floor. Louise soon began helping in the family business, sketching in missing bits of the images for her mother’s needle.

It was a household full of unspoken emotion, and the tension and desire centered around the father. Louis Bourgeois was a vain, self-absorbed charmer with a Rabelaisian sense of humor, an affectionate and dominating parent who loved and bullied his most talented child. He baited and humiliated Louise, the way fathers do, in order to make her better; she felt helpless and furious and worked harder.

When she was about ten, Louis hired an Englishwoman, Sadie, to be the children’s governess. She was also his mistress, and she lived with the family for ten years. Joséphine Bourgeois tolerated her rival, though she also relied on Louise to spy on them and keep them apart. It was her father’s “betrayal,” Louise claimed, that was the great trauma of her life, the source of all the emotional conflicts that she would use in her work. Her mother’s capitulation, of course, may also have played a part, if only by giving her a lesson in what not to become.

After her mother’s death in 1932, when she was 20, Bourgeois studied mathematics at the Sorbonne. Later she switched to painting, studying with, among others, Fernand Léger. In the competitive Paris art world, she met a lot of “ridiculous Don Juan macho father figures”—André Breton, Marcel Duchamp—whom she admired but distrusted: she already knew the type. She said she aimed her art against them. She had a steely determination to hold her own.

But she also knew an escape route when she saw one. In 1938, when she was 26, she married Robert Goldwater, a young American art historian, and moved with him to New York. Goldwater seems to have been a rational, even-tempered man who supported her work. But here there’s a lacuna in her autobiography: Bourgeois said almost nothing in public about her marriage or her children. It’s not entirely surprising, since two of her three sons are still alive.

In New York, for the first time, she began making sculpture. Her early work was reserved and enigmatic. She made slender, abstract figures out of wood and placed them huddled together; she said that they represented her family and friends, and that they were about loneliness. She had her first solo show in 1947, and quickly achieved acclaim; the Museum of Modern Art began acquiring her work.

In 1951, however, the year of her father’s death, she stopped doing solo shows. When she returned to the public eye, it was the early 1960s, the era of Claes Oldenburg and soft sculpture, of reaction against the male bluster of the ‘50s. She turned from the wood of her previous work to more fluid materials, such as plaster and latex. Disinhibition was in, “letting it all hang out,” and that was perfect for Bourgeois, who had a lot to hang. She had the good fortune to have a rich inner life—or, depending on how you wish to judge her, a savvy eye for what might disturb and attract attention.

She began sculpting strange, bumpy objects that looked like, or seemed to be covered in, breasts, vulvas, or other body parts. Avenza (1968-69), in the Gemeentemuseum show, is a mass of latex lumps that could be people huddled together, penis heads, growths, or turds. When critic and curator Lucy Lippard invited Bourgeois into her groundbreaking 1966 group show Eccentric Abstraction, alongside such much younger artists as Bruce Nauman and Eva Hesse, she thought these blobs were “astoundingly ‘ugly’”—but by then, giving aesthetic offense could be a positive qualification.

Then in 1973 Goldwater died—and something snapped in Bourgeois, or perhaps broke loose. A year later she made The Destruction of the Father. With that defiant piece, the 62-year-old widow joined the great social movement of her time: the revolt of women and children against the authority of the fathers. Take that, Dad! And the art world, too! Her work became bigger, more outrageous, even more blatantly, discomfitingly erotic. It also became funnier. She staged a performance in which she dressed up friends, some of them male art critics, in latex aprons covered in breasts. The photographer Robert Mapplethorpe asked to take her portrait, and she posed for him, smiling, with one of her sculptures—a large latex reproduction of an erect penis, titled Fillette, “little girl”—tucked like a baguette under her arm.

It may be that this is where our craving for autobiography starts, with the rebellion against the fathers. Each step the West takes toward more democracy, greater individualism, requires that we tell new stories about ourselves. The Reformation brought forth the domestic scenes of Jan Steen; and in the late 20th century, when white male authority no longer prescribed how women, children, and people of other races should feel, we became fascinated by images of artists’ own inner lives. (Political and ideological art was another path, one Bourgeois didn’t take.) Inevitably, some intimate revelations shock or titillate—think of Steen’s portraits of drunks and prostitutes. But autobiography can also speak to the real uncertainties of the new individuality: Who are we? How do we feel? Once Dad stops talking so much, what will we say?

You could argue that Bourgeois took advantage of this quest for identity, or that it heightened interest in material that was already hers: familial conflict, the intersection of love and power, the nature of the self, the body not as an aesthetic object but as a troubling experience. She herself thought she and her times went well together: “I fit into history like a bug in a rug.” Whatever the case, her star rose and rose. In 1982, she was given a retrospective at the Museum of Modern Art, one of the New York art world’s highest honors. It was also the museum’s first large-scale retrospective for a woman. It made Bourgeois, at age 71, an art superstar.

Before then, she had said very little about her work. But with the 1982 show, the bombshell burst: she told the world about her father’s mistress and her anger—she published it, in fact, in an article titled “Child Abuse.” And her career flourished. Over the next two decades Bourgeois produced work after work of astonishing power. It’s sometimes implied that she did her greatest work so late because she had grown old and acquired wisdom. (Call it the Yoda theory of artistic endeavor.) What seems more likely is that she had been waiting all those years for recognition, and when it finally came, the work poured forth. To gain confidence, she once told an interviewer, “means that you cannot shut up.”

By the 1990s she had changed media again. She had found a devoted assistant, Jerry Gorovoy, moved to a studio in an abandoned warehouse in Brooklyn, and was combining wood and marble with cast-off building materials—glassless windows, chain-link fencing, battered doors—to construct some of the works for which she is best known, her Cells.

These installations take the form of rooms that suggest abandoned houses or industrial spaces. Inside, a series of sculptures and found objects evoke scenes of emotional tension and family life. Some of the Cells are frightening, some serene. It is impossible not to look at them without being drawn, not into the artist’s childhood, but into your own, into the interior space of memory. They recall the uncanny experience of being a small child in a strange world.

Cell XXXIV (2003), recently acquired by the Gemeentemuseum and on view in “Double Sexus,” consists of a steel cage in which two dresses and a mirror hang, along with a twisted mass of fabric from which a woman’s legs dangle. The cell is both a restful interior space and a prison, and the contorted body seems wrung by unknown anxiety. The dresses might represent the demand to present a false identity to the world, or perhaps the hope of self-transformation. Bourgeois said, “Each Cell deals with fear. Fear is pain. Often it is not perceived as pain, because it is always disguising itself…”

Bourgeois was shrewd in the way she presented herself to the world (and mischievous too: she knew what she was doing when she posed with that oversize penis). She almost certainly used her biography to “sell” her work, to make it more accessible—but when so much of contemporary art is difficult to understand, why not give the lay audience a leg up? She probably also used it to add an illusion of depth to sculptures that needed it. Without the autobiographical references, the giant spiders, as entertaining as they are, can seem merely theatrical.

But overall, her work makes a strong case for the legitimacy of autobiography in art. Autobiography can be gossipy, narcissistic, or literal-minded. But it can also be transformed into art of the greatest power. Bourgeois was able to remake her experience, through strength, craft, and profound psychological insight, into sculptures that move, disturb, and return our own memories to us. Autobiography, in Bourgeois’ best work, is placed at the service of emotional truth. In drawing on her own life, she opens a door for us into the place all that therapeutic talk comes from: the ravaged, half-abandoned house of our own most private thoughts.

Trouw, September 18, 2010. Louise Bourgeois and Hans Bellmer, ’Double Sexus’, through January 16, 2011, in the Gemeentemuseum, The Hague.

Barbara Kingsolver’s new novel begins in the year 1929, on a tropical island off the coast of Mexico. There, an American boy swims through an underwater cave to find himself in a secret pool in the jungle. There’s a ruined temple there, and in the pool lie the bones of human sacrifice. The underwater passage, he’s told, is called a “lacuna”: “an opening, like a mouth, that swallows things.… It goes into the belly of the world.” It’s a site of death, but also of buried treasure and escape. It is a hole in history.

History, and especially the gaps in the historical record, is the central theme of “The Lacuna.” Like other successful novels in recent years, this brilliantly constructed narrative includes both fictional characters and real people, in this case the colorful Mexican painters Diego Rivera and Frida Kahlo and their controversial guest, the exiled Communist leader Leon Trotsky.

There to observe them is the American boy, Harrison Shepherd. The shy, bookish son of an American father and a gold-digging Mexican mother, he discovers, as a teenager in Mexico City, Diego Rivera’s murals depicting the history of Mexico. He becomes so fascinated by Rivera and everything he represents—national identity, socialist politics, the power of art—that he takes a job in the artist’s household as a cook. When Trotsky comes, at Rivera’s invitation, to seek asylum in Mexico, Shepherd goes to work for him as a typist.

The story is told in several different voices, pieced together from letters, newspaper articles, the recollections of Shepherd’s own loyal secretary, and especially Shepherd’s diaries. Shepherd hopes that the lies and errors of the public record—the Mexican press claim Rivera eats human flesh, while Trotsky is cast by both the Americans and the Russians as a Communist villain—can be countered, by his private account. He writes “so when nothing is left of us but bones, someone will know where we went.”

Shepherd has a lacuna in his own history as well: he is gay, and keeps his desires painfully hidden. Kahlo sympathizes with his need for secrecy. Lifting her long skirt to reveal her withered, polio-damaged leg, she tells him, “The most important thing about a person is always the thing you don’t know.” Later he himself adds, “The most important part of any story is the missing piece.”

Frida urges Shepherd to “crack open the mute culture” and write a “true history of Mexico.” After Trotsky’s murder in 1940, he does, moving to America and penning two best-selling historical novels about the Aztecs and the Spanish Conquest. His secretary, Violet, warns him to watch out: Americans “don’t like to see ourselves joined hard to the past. We’d as soon take the scissors and cut every ribbon of that.” Eventually, when Shepherd is subjected to investigation for Communist activity, he too becomes a human sacrifice, his career and life offered up to Americans’ sense of security.
Kingsolver plays masterfully with the recurring themes of unknown truths, modernity versus tradition, dual nationality, the liberating potential of artistic expression. She also comments sharply on current events, as when she has Trotsky remark that people “want to believe in heroes…And villains. Especially when very frightened. It’s less taxing than the truth.”

While “The Lacuna” is thematically rich, it’s at times narratively flat. Like many novelists diving into the historical record, Kingsolver comes back loaded down with too much detail. (“The Lacuna” strongly resembles Michael Chabon’s “Amazing Adventures of Kavalier & Clay” in its time period, political concerns, naïve, gay central character, and excessive length.) Besides, the lonely, improbably innocent Shepherd is too much of a lacuna himself to carry the book emotionally. To turn upsetting, enraging real events into thoughtful, skillfully constructed fiction, Kingsolver has deliberately taken a step back from her material. My feeling is that she’s stepped back a little too far.

Trouw, July 24, 2010. The Lacuna by Barbara Kingsolver (New York: Harper, 2009).

Sara Maitland doesn’t grow her own vegetables; she doesn’t knit; she wouldn’t want to do without central heating. She smokes. She spent all her life to the age of 50 talking, first as a member of a large and noisy family, then as a writer, lecturer, and activist living in London. She’s not the sort of person you’d expect to go in for radical solitude.

But to Maitland, as she explains in her intelligent and engaging “A Book of Silence,” solitude is not primarily an escape from the hectic pace of modern life. It’s an adventure and a challenge: how far can she go? “It was not peace and contentment that I craved,” she writes. Instead, she was after “that awed response to certain phenomena of the ‘natural’ world in which words, and even normal emotional reactions, fail or rather step away from the experience and there is a silence that is powerful, harsh and essentially inhumane. […] I discovered in myself a longing for the sublime.”

Maitland (1950) is a well-known British writer whose books include novels, short stories, an oral history of the 1960s, and works of feminist theology. Born into a wealthy family and raised in London and Scotland, she studied at Oxford, where one of her fellow students, the later American president Bill Clinton, introduced her to feminism when he took her to hear Germaine Greer. She married an Anglican vicar and had two children.

In the early 1990s, Maitland’s life began to change. Her children left home. Her marriage broke up. She began having trouble writing fiction. She moved from London to a village in the country; she converted to Catholicism. Living alone for the first time, she found herself becoming more interested in the act of prayer. She began to perform a kind of contemplative meditation that she saw as a way of “trying to empty one’s mind of its egotistical concerns in an attempt to align oneself with reality.” She felt that silence was helping her to see things as they were.

Being alone was such a revelation to her that she decided to see what would happen if she spent less time with other people, unplugged the phone and Internet connection (at least a day or two a week), and began actively to seek solitude. A friend, playing devil’s advocate, wrote her that silence is “the place of death, of nothingness. […] All silence is waiting to be broken.” But Maitland did not experience silence as a negative condition. Instead, she discovered “a stillness of heart and mind which is not a void but a rich space.”

She decided to try spending a longer period of time on her own. She rented a cottage on the Isle of Skye and spent 40 days and 40 nights there alone, walking, reading, writing and listening for the silence. She found that her senses became intensified, her emotions more powerful. She thought she heard people singing in the sound of the wind. She felt joy, exultation, contentment, and sometimes an “exhilarating sense of peril” that had to do with being close to the emotional edge.

Later, in her own house, she had an enforced experience with silence when a March snowstorm took the phone lines down and trapped her indoors for ten days. Aside from fearing that she would run out of cigarettes, she found herself unnerved. She feared that “the silence was hollowing me out and leaving me empty and naked.” She devotes one chapter in “A Book of Silence” to the dangers of solitude, which include madness and suicide. She reminds us that solitary confinement is also a form of torture.

The book is not all about Maitland’s own experience: she prefers to study other people’s writing on silence, and to offer her erudite observations on various aspects of solitude. She cites polar explorers, solo round-the-world sailors, and idealistic young Chris McCandless, who went alone into the Alaskan wilderness and died. She writes about the Christian hermits who lived on isolated Irish islands in the seventh and eighth centuries. She spares a thought for the loneliness of lighthouse keepers.

She discusses Genesis, in which God creates by speaking, and questions this view of “silence as a lack, something that needs to be broken in order to let in life and meaning.” And why do we call it the “Big Bang,” she wonders, when there was nothing to make a sound?

Eventually, because the asceticism of the early Christian hermits was so important to the development of the Church, she tries spending a week in the Sinai Desert. The trip is surprisingly easy to arrange: she just books a desert meditation package tour. But she’s too much a northerner: the desert is just not her landscape. Nor does she take to Zen meditation or the Quaker custom of silent worship. Instead her search leads her to everyday sorts of contemplation, like birdwatching, which she describes as “paying attention to nothing in the hope that it would at any moment become a bird.”

One disadvantage of silence is that it’s bad for Maitland’s fiction: she can’t pray and come up with stories at the same time. She notes that there’s another kind of silence, too, one embraced by the English Romantic poets: a solitude whose aim was not losing oneself but expressing oneself, strengthening one’s creative individuality. When the two kinds of silence come into conflict, Maitland can’t choose. Nor does she choose complete stillness. At the book’s end, she moves to a lonely house in Scotland, but one with room for guests.

What’s interesting in all these accounts of silence, positive and negative, is how hard it is for humans to go for long periods without speaking to each other. Apparently our brains are built for interaction with others of our species, so much so that only unusual people, under special circumstances, can stand to be alone for any length of time. Maitland doesn’t manage to convince me that the lonely wilderness would be my cup of tea. Still, I enjoyed her dryly humorous description of her attempts at expanding the mind through solitude. “A Book of Silence” is like travel writing for the mental landscape: you can read it with pleasure and interest even if you never plan to visit the country it describes.

 

Monks, Explorers, and Solo Sailors

“A Book of Silence” mentions a number of people who have spent long periods of time in silence. They include:

Saint Anthony, third-century founder of Christian monasticism, famous for his long isolation in the desert and temptation by demons, often in the form of sexy dancing girls.

Saint Cuthbert, seventh-century English monk who used to “pray all night standing up to his neck in the frigid waters of the North Sea.” When he emerged, “otters would come and warm him with their tongues and fur.”

Thomas Merton, American Trappist, theologian, writer and poet who found in silence a “happiness that is so pure because it is simply not of one’s own making but sheer mercy and gift.”

Augustine Courtauld, a wealthy British adventurer who spent six months in a tent on Greenland in 1930-31.

Bernard Moitessier, French solo sailor who was on course to win a round-the-world competition in 1969 but enjoyed the peace of the sea so much that he gave up the race. Another racer was driven by the solitude to commit suicide.

Tenzin Palmo, a British Buddhist nun who spent three years in silence in the Himalayas. Her only comment was, “Well, it wasn’t boring.”

Trouw, 20 March 2010.

In Atwood’s funniest novel in ages, two women have survived a pandemic, one barricaded in a beauty salon, the other sequestered in an endangered-species-themed strip club. In flashbacks, we learn they’re both members of an environmentalist group called “God’s Gardeners,” which doubles as an ecoterrorist cell. Always a brilliant social satirist, Atwood lovingly parodies Christian idealism—or does she embrace it?—while offering a sneaky feminist take on dystopia: The Road as hen party.

From The Village Voice, “The Best Books of 2009.”